They already have everything you need for growth. You as parents should just do everything to facilitate this process. And here is very positive to help education. What is it? This shift from the methods based on deterrence, to methods based on love. Applying in practice the five principles of positive parenting, you will gain not only confidence in what you are doing everything necessary, but realize that your support gives children the ability to fully realize their potential. Thus, the principles of positive parenting to help children find the strength to overcome life difficulties and to fully develop the internal capacity.
1. Differ from the other – okay. 2. Making mistakes – correctly. 3. Show negative emotions – is normal. 4. Want more – normally.
5. Disagree – fine, but we must remember that mom and dad – the main ones. Want emphasize that the goal of positive parenting – to develop in children prone to cooperate, rather than surrender. To raise a child's spirit of cooperation, confidence and responsiveness necessary to develop his will, and not break it. Achieve cooperation – hence the desire to encourage children to listen to your requests and fulfill them. The first step is to learn how to most effectively give orders. Tight orders here do not work. Themselves Judge: If the work someone has commanded you at every step, you would like it? A Child's Day is full of infinite directions. Not surprisingly, the mother now and then complain that their children will not listen. And you would be perceived the person who you constantly sawing? Each child its own unique purpose. Having accepted this fact, parents can relax, unwind and not take responsibility for any problem that arises in the child. We spend too much time and energy on trying to understand what we could do or that I had to make a child in any given situation. (As opposed to Tony Parker). Instead, we should realize that before all the children from time to time arise various problems, issues and challenges. Our task as parents – to help children turn to face the problem and successfully cope with it. Never forget that each child a unique set of challenges and talents and we can not change is what they have. However, we are able to take care of children to have had every opportunity to achieve the best results for what they are capable. We are not always able to give children what they want and need, but we can teach them a healthy response to any frustration that they could draw from any adversity strength and confidence. You will not be there whenever they need, but you'll know how to react to the feelings and unmet needs of children in such a way as to help them heal wounds and bring back the feeling that they are surrounded by love and care. Instead of teaching children what is right and wrong, teach them to find the answer in own soul. The task of parents – to properly maintain their children, that they become stronger and healthier. If we are too facilitates the tasks of children, thereby prevent them from becoming violent. However, helping is not enough, we also deprives them of support needed for growth. Children can not cope with everything yourself. Without the help of parents the child can not grow and develop in themselves the qualities needed to succeed in life.