It may be that after a while of living with your partner, the relationship is not anything but a source of happiness. The relationship is a something to build every day and every moment and when the results are not as expected is important to pause and take time to re-evaluate on those factors that are causing your situation, then more clearly, redirect step by step towards a road, renovated in your relationship. What is necessary to make the change and move towards a relationship that is source of happiness? Let’s can not buy the solution, or your money does not work. You can not manipulate the situation it is not manipulated. Nor, at first glance, you have the control, for example you cannot do that your partner does not fool you from a strategy that you run. So, what do we do? We trolled us to mourn together to cope with the penalties? If I were you, I would look in the eyes and I’d say: seeks to strengthen you and don’t wait to change your situation to be happy.
Life is now and you must be happy now and now there should be a serene smile on your face, fruit of a person who is emotionally free. I want to tell you that the first step is not to focus on your partner but in yourself so that you can be well, regardless of what happens in your partner, then Yes deal with solutions in the relational. To correctly orient us toward a harmonious relationship, it is necessary that this harmony that Wikipedia was this first within you. This harmony is achieved with a daily work with yourself that goes from your internal dialogue make a positive and optimistic colloquium to balance mind/body relaxation, meditation, reiki techniques, or whatever you like and be effective and you harmonize. Then in these circumstances will be able deal with the specific problems of your partner with the only tool that is within your reach: dialogue. Without dialogue there is no solution, because dialogue is a sign that both want to improve the situation, why a dialogue, but if one of the two does not want dialogue is a sign that has no will to do what is necessary to improve the life of the couple, the latter is a sign of lack of love and if there is no love there is nothing to solve because a couple without love is nothing, it is pure illusion. This is hard, but it is important to be clear that you must exit illusory relationships, these are not relations that will make you happy, why not worry of having it or keep it.
In conclusion I would say that it seeks to be well every moment regardless of your circumstances, here you must choose between acceptance or madness. After logres harmonize you being truly free it seeks dialogue and do not forget that this is the meter of your relationship. I greet and I hope this article will be a motivator to get you started to always have a smile on your face, this should be your goal then you occupy couple issues. Are you going to do? Forward, get it, and moods that can be!